Online Matchmaking at VivahaBandhan

Online Matchmaking is very well established today on the Internet. It is said that online matchmaking sites are the fastest growing online market to date. This service, as a whole, has already brought in over 428 million dollars in sales. To stay in the lead, online matchmaking sites have to find a way to stay up to date. To do this they have to look at what more and more people want, and what they are starting to use. This craze is known as instant messaging (or IM). Why is the use of instant messaging growing so fast? I think it is because everyone wants things faster. The do not like waiting for a response. Using instant messaging is almost as good as being in the same room as the person you are talking to.

Nowadays, communication has never been so fast; meeting people has never
been so easy, but more and more people are looking for and using some kind of matchmaking service – online or offline.

We all see the revival of the millennium-old traditional matchmaking service industry. People looking for matchmaking service are serious love and marriage seekers. They are quite prepared to pay a huge amount of money in exchange for the highest rate of success in the shortest time possible. The Guinness Book of World Records listed Orly Hod (Orly the Matchmaker) – whose fees run up to $100,000 – as the world’s priciest matchmaker.

We do not have to look at the statistics before we know more people live longer today than those a century ago; more people get divorced today than those a century ago. We begin to wonder why marriage relationship would not last longer than those a century ago. Anyone could easily give dozens of reasons.

Of course, most people would think of love and marriage is more an art than a science. But recent research has discovered that even personality and behavior orientations have genetic determinants, and so have marriage relationships.

We also see what the matchmakers are basically applying in matching people is the nowadays "scientific" tool – psychological tests, whether they are called compatibility test, survey or profile.

Almost all matchmakers take the view that compatibility is the golden rule. On the contrary, relationships do not depend only on compatibility.

There are numerous real cases that some couple disliked each other, but were able to stay together for their entire lives, while other couple loved each other deeply, but were only able to enjoy each other’s company for a very brief period of time. That is why there are so many great love stories like "Romeo and Juliette".

One becoming a member of the Vivaha Bandhan Matrimonial website can send private messages without others knowing it. The people working on the offices of the websites provide excellent telephone help to those who want to know any details related to the website. The website provides excellent way to find one’s match. If for example, one is searching for Muslim Shaikh who are working in Intel, then one has to type muslim shaikh + Intel in the search bar and hit enter. The screen gets filled immediately with the names of all muslims shaikhs who have registered with VivahaBandhan. One gets automatic e-mil alerts daily, if looking for specific age range of telugu , tamil, kanada people in the websites.

Choosing your Life Partner

Indian Matrimonial websites, online marriage matchmaking

When marriage is spoken of during these "modern" times, people become horrified, conjuring images of an arranged marriage, trying to find that "perfect" companion, how much of a financial burden it will become, and so on. The reality is that we can solve these problems, not exacerbate them, yet unfortunately we have integrated our local traditions and customs so that marriage has become a major concern for a man rather than a delightful experience.

When living in a free, perverted and corrupt Western society, the male youth finds many temptations and tests, as a result of mixing with females, which he must face and overcome. He must constantly resist these temptations, which are thrown at him in the streets, on the media, and at work. And so the wisdom of the Prophet (s.a.w) echoes on, when he said: "O young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains the eyes from casting (evil glances), and preserves one from immorality..."

When seriously considering marriage, you must pose the question to yourself as to just what kind of wife you want, what her qualities should be in order to establish peaceful household, and how you will know who she is.

"A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, her status, her beauty, and her religion; so try to get one who is religious, may you be blessed." This specifically defines just what kind of a companion we are seeking, for if we marry her for anything other than her religious piety, our marriage is bound to fall into misery.

True, beauty and charm is hard to resist, yet beauty does not last forever and does not guarantee you her obedience and religiousness. Financial status is dynamic, and so is worldly status, yet religion strongly establishes a household, and it may be that through your intention of marrying her for her religion, the rest is given to you anyway. In another hadith, "The whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious woman." Imagine! Nothing in this world is as valuable as a pious woman! This point has been stressed many times by Great persons,

QUALITIES OF THE PIOUS MEN & WOMAN

qualities which by the way should be evident in both males and females. So, my dear brother, choose her for the following attributes:

-a believing person

-a devout person

-a true men /women

-a men /woman who is patient and constant

-a men /woman who humbles herself

-a men /woman who gives charity

-a men /woman who fasts and denies herself

-a men /woman who guards her chastity

-a men /woman who engages much in God's praise.

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Matrimonial Services and marriage at Vivahabandhan

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Marriage is considered as a social bond, which needs to be nourished with time and love. For Indians, marriage is a long-term commitment. Nuptials are not only regarded as the union of two souls, but also as a confluence between the two families or descent. It is considered as an important and a diverse phase of our life cycle.

Such long-term commitment decisions need to be thought of rationally, rather than an impulsive decision, which could leave callous imprint in our lives. The recipe for successful marriages goes far beyond the right combination (compatibility) of horoscopes and sun-signs. So, what are the condiments you need to spice up your connubial life? Just season it with the right blend of emotions; attitude and ethics that you stand for and can compromise on and be ready to savour the conjugal bliss.

Here we discuss some of the garnishes for a successful marriage:

Be yourself. You need to accept and respect the person for what they are. Don't go out of your way or overboard in a bid to please your partner. Accept them with all their positive and negative characteristics. Nagging, ridiculing or cribbing will not help you change your partner's habits. But discussing your piques and peeves will help both of you adjust better. Expecting others to change is futile, try and mould yourself without compromising hard on your values and principles.

Physical attraction does matters, so does the beauty of your soul. Beauty is not just skin deep. External beauty fades with time what remains and nourishes the relation is the inner beauty of the soul.

Understanding each other is also a vital aspect of this relationship. There should be no room left for misunderstanding or miscommunication to crop between the two. The chemistry has to be perfect with little room left for explanations. Discuss your thoughts and expectations on being a wife/husband or girlfriend/. Get to know each others likes and dislikes and make best of both.

Respect each other. Respect and accept the person for what they are and as they are. Recognize and appreciate your buddy's abilities and talents. Ridiculing or demeaning will sour the relations. Always stand by your partner and sort out the differences in private.

Religion cannot mar your relationship. Iron out the differences in your opinions in regard to religion, if you both are from different religion. Discuss and understand each other's religious beliefs and customs in particular, this will help you to adjust with the new family customs better. If neither of you practices any specific religion nor has had a religious upbringing, discuss about your value and belief systems (non-religious).

Children are no longer considered as Gods gift. Whether you both want them? If yes, when and how many? Do you consider adoption as an option? Or you both don't believe in having kid's at all. You need to have a fair idea of your partner's thoughts in regard to kids and their upbringing.

Money talks are absolute must. Discuss on how both of you would manage money. Workout on budgeting for your home sweet home or maybe a monthly budget planner! How would each of you manage your money? Joint finances? Separate?

Career compromise becomes must in case both of you are working. Each of you should be willing to compromise to support the other in their career.

Trust and love are the basic elements needed to clutch on to the marital strings. But that's just not enough pizzazz for your relationship. You also need to garnish your paradise with understanding, respect and adjustment sans any pretence or obligation. Spouse should be your best friend with whom you could share anything and everything under this earth. Slightest doubt or hesitation, then friend it's time to rethink your decision for long-term commitment (marriage).

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